There's often an excuse that they haven’t met the right woman, or they justify their history by saying they still have plenty of time to settle down as they can have children at any age. If they have been married it's likely to have been for a short time.
Or, if they have been in a long term relationship or marriage, they will usually have a history of infidelity.3.
Commitment-phobic men are tortured souls full of fear.
but the key is spotting the signs and weighing them against your absolute needs in a relationship.
, and they generally have a serious problem in staying in a relationship for the long-term.
They may have felt blissfully happy with someone when everything was free and easy and they weren’t tied down, but as soon as they feel like they’re moving towards a committed relationship they start sabotaging it.
Commitment phobia is a very painful experience both for the one who engages in the pattern and for those who are involved with that person.
Usually the art of pushing and pulling and seduction are the domain of the commitment “phobe.” The answer dwells deeply in the family of origin survival patterns. People who are commitment phobic feel they need to cut off their feelings after a certain point of knowing someone as a means of feeling in control and feeling emotionally protected.